“Osborn excels at disrupting conventional ‘truths’.”

—Soundings

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She’s Such a Liar:

Incest, Knowledge & Power

A MANIFESTO

A daring critique of Western patriarchy and its control of women’s bodies.

For centuries, incest has been framed as a private, shameful family matter—but it is also a systemic crime and a social injustice, with deep cultural, institutional, and political roots.

In this shrewd and provocative manifesto, Susan Osborn, Ph.D., examines the ordinary social, medical, and legal systems that allow incest to remain hidden and unaddressed.

She’s Such a Liar offers a rigorous, accessible feminist analysis of the forces that silence women, obscure accountability, and normalize disbelief.

By situating incest within broader systems of power and knowledge production, Osborn exposes why this pervasive—and often unspoken—form of sexual violence remains so difficult to confront.

She’s Such a Liar examines incest, but it is equally a deep look at Western patriarchy and the millennia-old cultural, medical, and political structures used to oppress and subordinate women—revealing insights that will resonate with all readers who care about justice, power, and social change.

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“She’s Such a Liar is a seismic indictment of the powerful cultural, medical, and political systems that protect abusers and silence survivors.”

—Regina M. Calcaterra, Esq., New York Times best-selling author of Etched in Sand

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“Bold ... clear-eyed and incisive.”

—Jennifer Joy Freyd, Ph.D., Professor Emerit, Psychology, University of Oregon; founder and president, Center for Institutional Courage

“...an unflinching call to confront the entrenched systems that protect abusers and silence survivors.”

—Regina M. Calcaterra, Esq., New York Times best-selling author of Etched in Sand

“dismantles the myth of medical neutrality, and calls for a cultural reckoning. This book could not be more timely.”

—Dawn Skorczewski, Professor of English emerita, Brandeis University, author of An Accident of Hope: The Therapy Tapes of Anne Sexton

“Osborn gives us the tools to dismantle the dominant discourses that continue to protect perpetrators at the expense of girls’ human dignity.”

—Marcie Bianco, author of Breaking Free: The Lie of Equality and the Feminist Fight for Freedom

“... sexual violence against women, including incest, will never be solved until we lift the veil on the systems that support it.”

—Susan Prout, co-founder, I Have the Right To

“Essential reading for feminists, clinicians, researchers, and advocates working in trauma and abuse recovery.”

—Heidi Yewman, author of Dumb Girl

“I hope this work will be adopted by women’s studies and gender studies departments globally.”

—Liz Alterman, author of the award-winning memoir Sad Sacked

A Manifesto

A daring new critique of Western patriarchy and the enduring systems that control and discipline women’s bodies

Dr. Osborn is a writer and leading cultural critic known for challenging accepted truths about power, gender, and violence. Her work focuses on how everyday systems—from families to social institutions—shape what women are allowed to know and say about their own bodies, and how women have historically been controlled and silenced. Writing with clarity and restraint rather than sensationalism, Osborn brings difficult subjects out of the private realm and into public view, asking why silence persists and who benefits from it. She’s Such a Liar: Incest, Knowledge & Power (Shake the Table Press) extends this work by examining incest not as a private tragedy, but as a widespread and systematically suppressed form of violence.

If we want to fight the patriarchal abuse that keeps all women oppressed, we need to open windows and doors and promote public discussion of this topic not as a sordid private event but as a political phenomenon, part of the patriarchy’s armamentarium of communicative tactics to keep girls and women shut up and subordinated.

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Invite Susan to Speak

The Unthinkable: The Medical Suppression of Incest—Then and Now

This presentation exposes strategies employed by medical professionals to keep incest from public view and to erase incest from the historical record. The social and political consequences of the suppression are also addressed.

Why We Need to Repoliticize Incest

In this presentation, Dr. Osborn examines how the medical establishment—functioning as an extended patriarchy—has depoliticized and co-opted the issue of sexual violence.

Sexual Violence Against Girls and the Politics of Shame

In this talk, Dr. Osborn reveals how enduring systems of private, institutional, and political power cultivate feelings of shame and helplessness in victims, undermining collective political mobilization.

What’s in a Word? Re-Visioning the Language of Sexual Violence

Too often, we still rely on euphemisms, sensationalism, and stereotypes that favor perpetrators and discredit survivors. Dr. Osborn’s presentation highlights examples of this language and offers clear, constructive alternatives.

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“A powerful novel, persuasive and unflinching.”

The Philadelphia Inquirer

“'Surviving the Wreck' is a chilling novel about the silences in ‘normal’ families, the pain behind those silences, and the need to turn silence into speech."

—Alicia Ostriker, former New York State Poet Laureate

“Osborn's 'Elizabeth Bowen' is well-moderated [and] dangerously intellectual…a tour de force.”

—Ian d’ Alton, The Irish Review

“Splendid…Osborn's 'Elizabeth Bowen' advance[s] a series of sophisticated claims about mimesis…an impressive contribution.”

—Matthew Brown, Irish Studies Review

“…quite simply, a work of genius. never before have the intricacies of family bonds been so honestly and so compellingly rendered.”

Virginia Woolf: The Impact of Childhood Sexual Abuse on Her Life and Work, and Vertigo

“This masterfully executed novel. . . . deals with the harrowing consequences of growing up in a family where everyone turns to the wrong person for affection . . . very engaging; highly recommended.”

—Library Journal

“…victorious and uplifting… a novel that should make its indelible mark in every reader’s mind.”

—The Harvard Independent

“. . . an excellent book about family entrapment."

Ralph H. Earle, Ph. D.

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